We’re engaged!

Raffy & Ezrha

Our Story

It was in 2012 when Raffy and Ezrha started working in the same school. Ezrha worked a few months earlier than Raffy and was into teaching, while Raffy is in the corporate social responsibility department of the school. Unknown to both of them, they were involved with few projects of the school, but never saw each other until 2014, when Ezrha took a teaching load for NSTP as a facilitator. Raffy was the coordinator for NSTP back then, and in charge with training the facilitators.

The two of them grew close, and after a year, Raffy decided to court her. It wasn’t the right season for the both of them, so they decided to have some distance.

For some funny reasons, no matter how they put distance between them, they seem to always find a way back to each other. They continued to share awkward moments whenever they are involved with community projects 😜 and after a couple of years, they started reconnecting again. This time, everything seemed sure. They both kept that “spark” between them. Raffy and Ezrha made it official, and started their journey as a couple after months of courtship. 

Fast forward to nearly three years into their relationship, Raffy surprised Ezrha on her birthday with the most perfect gift she could ask for: his promise of everlasting love. ❤️

Soulmates

Ezrha believes that they are soulmates. After several serendipitous moments, here they are, finally getting married! There is another story worth telling. 

When Ezrha was still in Kindergarten, there’s a big house that can be seen from the playground of her school. As a child who dreams about princesses and castles, she wondered what could be inside that big house. Little did she know that same house is owned by Raffy’s grandparents. She hasn’t visited that house yet, but soon she will!

Oh and here’s a fun fact- Raffy and Ezrha’s Moms were classmates back in pre-school. What a total coincidence, right? 

They both believe that they are truly made for each other. 

#EzMeantToBeWithRaffy ♥️

The Proposal

Both of them knew where they are heading. More than a year into their relationship, they have started talking about their future. They also started investing in their future home. It’s just the “right timing” of when will Raffy ever pop the question, that kept Ezrha wondering until her birthday.

Though certain, Ezrha kept telling Raffy to seek her father’s approval first before proposing. Her birthday was nearing, and it was a busy week for both of them; they just started with a new job. Ezrha brushed off the idea (though still hoping) that he’d be proposing during her birthday as there could be no way that he was able to talk to her father during that week or any week before her birthday. 

Unknown to her, Raffy did ask for her hand in marriage by formally seeking her father’s approval together with Ezrha’s youngest sister only a few days before her birthday. It was indeed a swift move from Raffy, taking the advantage of having an excuse of running some errands on that day.

After several mishaps days before the day (Ezrha’s father cannot keep a secret for long), during her birthday, Raffy asked her to have a stroll outside, and eventually eat dinner outside (though this is actually a car date because of the pandemic). He also asked her to bring along something that she can use as a blindfold. In Ezrha’s thoughts, this could be it! But she kept calm and not too assuming.

It started to rain that day. Well, most of the time, it always rains during her birthday. Luckily, Raffy has a few plans up his sleeve. They parked in the covered parking of a nearby mall, and waited for the rain to stop a little. This is when the surprise began. He asked Ezrha if she’s ready to put on her blindfold- it was her girl scout’s scarf back in high school. Raffy began to drive around. It was hard for Ezrha to figure out where they’re heading. Even though she tried to memorize the twists and turns in the road, Raffy was smarter (haha). 

After almost 20 minutes of drive, they finally stopped and parked somewhere. Raffy started playing soft music in the background. Is this it? He told her to wait a little as he is fixing some things in his trunk. He went in and drove a little more, finding the perfect spot. When he stopped and went outside, he asked her, “Are you ready to take off your blindfold?” She sat upright, and took her blindfold. And there he is, kneeling outside of the car, with an umbrella in his right hand, and the ring in the left. It was a few seconds before she noticed the writings on the screen saying “Will you marry me?” It was a resounding YES! with tears in her eyes. 

And the journey of their best season yet, begins.

Gallery

When you are enjoying the company of each together, time seems to fly past so quickly. Then immediately, you ask yourself when you will see each other again next. Soon, there will no more waiting, because we will always be together to continue sharing endless loving and joyful moments with each other and to those around.

December 23, 2021

We are getting married.

It is almost time for the Big Day.

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“In a few days, we shall be taking our vows in marriage at the Saint Benedict Parish Church in Ayala Westgrove, Silang Cavite. We would have wanted to celebrate this very special occasion together with all our dear relatives and friends. However, due to COVID-19 protocols we are constrained to limit our guests to members of our immediate families and close friends only. We sincerely hope for your kind understanding.”

Saint Benedict Parish Church
Ayala Westgrove
Silang, Cavite

We’d love to hear from you!

17 Comments

  1. William – Liza Bahandi

    What a happy day! The two shall become one. Take God as the center & focus of your marriage life. We rejoice together with you especially tomorrow your very special & memorable day! The abundant grace & blessing of our Lord Jesus Christ to both of you! Congratulations Raffy & Ezra! Praying for both of you, Tito William & Tita Liza

  2. Maria Lourdes Justo-Castro

    Congratulations and Best wishes, Raffy and Ezra!
    We wish you both the very best as you embark on this new chapter in your life. Marriage is not a walk in the park, it is a work in progress. It requires constant communication, adjustment and your commitment to put your partner’s interest before your own. Put God in the center of your relationship. May God bless your union with an abundance of love and graces. ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  3. Eliza Godilano

    Congratulations Ezhra and Raffy! Wishing you all the best and God Bless!

  4. Luisito Lozada

    Congratulations and best wishes to both of you God bless

  5. Yssa Navarro

    Congratulations Ma’am Ez and Sir Raffy! Wishing you lots of joy, love and happiness on your wedding day and as you begin your new life together. God bless you both ❤️

    “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” Proverbs 3:3

  6. Angelita and Ruelito Paular

    What a beautiful love story! I can’t wait to see photos of your Wedding Day. Congratulations Ezrha and Raffy. God Bless.

  7. Sr Vigie Gungon

    Am happy for you.May the Lord bless you more as you are about to begin the new chapter of your life.Be happy!

  8. Arlyn Bonayon

    Raffy, please love and take care Ezhra love ko yan!!

    Congratulations and Best Wishes!! Dasal ko na lagi kayong masaya.
    Unawain palagi ang isa’t isa 🙂
    God bless you both!!

  9. Mia Rosella Herrera

    Dear Raffy and Ezrha,

    Congratulations and best wishes!!
    Thanks for sharing your love story in the new normal way with such creativity and detail.

    Ezra, you’re in good hands.
    Bata pa lang si Bibong as what we call him, mabait yan esp. with Doc Judy (Tita Ilou telling abt the story of closing the faucet while both kids where taking a bath at age 3 to 5).

    Raff is brave too, remembering finding him between Ceris 1 and 2 going to our place – alone when he was about 2 to 3 years old!!

    My prayers for both of you to have long happy and healthy life of togetherness, stay safe darlings and whoohohoo konting kembot na lang before forever begins!!!

    Enjoy each of every moment of your special day, again congrats and best wishes!!

    Love and prayers,
    Mia

  10. Roma D. Rosella

    Congratulations & Best Wishes Raffy & Ezrha! Love each other always❤❤

    Looking forward to being with you in the coming reunions.

  11. Em-em Cruz

    Congratulations and best wishes po 🎊 Wishing you all of the love and happiness! ♥

  12. Namp Nilli Batan

    Congratulations to both of you!! ♥️♥️♥️
    Wishing all the best and more little Madam and Sir roaming around your humble aboad. Very much excited specially to Ma’am Ezrha. Hehehehe. 👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️

    Note: hinay-hinay lang po sa mga napanalunan nung party. Baka hindi magkasya ang gown. Hehehehe. 😂😂😃😙😙😌

  13. Shy Balquin

    Dear Ma’am Ez and Sir Raffy,

    I enjoyed reading your love story and my favorite part is the big house owned by Sir Raffy’s grandparents 🤍. I am wishing you a bountiful and happy marriage.

    To Ma’am Ez, finally Ma’am heheh. Nakailang “ayiiieee” rin po kaming IE sayo kapag malapit sainyo si sir Raffy. Hehehhe.

    Congratulations po to both of you and God bless po sa inyong kasal 🤍✨

  14. Tita Tess Armamento

    Ang sweet ng story nyo 🙂 congrats to both of you Raffy & Ezrha, wishing you all the best, God bless 😇

  15. Geraldine P.Roxas

    Congratulations and best wishes to both of you…Cheers🥂🥂🥂

    • Frenzel Paz Avecilla

      Dearest Ma’am Ez & Sir Raffy ❤️

      Thank you for sharing your love story to us – from the cute meet to engagement and now, to your soon ever after 😍 Fan here ng inyong love team! Wieee

      Your smiles in the photos are contagious, kitang kita ko how much alike you are (pag ganun daw ay meant to be hihihi). But really, your smiles tell how much you love each others company. Plus the big big smile of Sir Raffy while on knees proposing 🥰 yung ngiting kinikilig na kinakabahan. Hehe

      I am trully happy you found each other. You are both special to me – my IE Professor/Mentor and my former bossing way back Student Assistant days. Hehe kaya I am much excited for “the day” and I know you are both in good hands 💖

      God bless your married life soon! Sending love and well wishes 🤗

  16. Frances Angela Monton

    Congratulations po on your wedding! Maam Ez, you’ve been a very wonderful teacher to us. You never fail to guide us properly and you’re very considerate, you deserve all the good things in the world. I know how much you love Sir Raffy, chikas mo palang sa amin during classes, kitang-kita na. I’m very happy for you, ma’am! You’ve been waiting for a long time para dito. I know you’ll be as kind and loving to your future family as you wer with us. Good luck on this new chapter, ma’am! Love loooots!

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